Books
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By Your Side, Caring for the Dying at Home, Barbara Karnes
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Bold Spirit Caring for the Dying, Janet Booth * Gale Gagnier * Terrence Ho *Lesley James * Ashlee Jansen * Shannon Koppenhoefer * Janice Lombardo * Tamelynda Lux * Olga Nikolajev *Siby Varghese * Chrystal Waban
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The Art of Dying Well: A practical guide to a good end of life, Katy Butler
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Advice for Future Corpses and Those Who Love Them, Sallie Tisdale
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Awake at the Bedside: Contemplative Teachings on Palliative and End-of-Life Care, Koshin Paley Ellison and Matt Weingast
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Caring for the Dying, Henry Fersko-Weiss
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A Beginner's Guide to the End, BJ Miller MD and Shoshana Berger
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The Handbook for Companioning the Mourner, Alan Wolfelt
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Grieving Is Loving: Compassionate Words for Bearing the Unbearable, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore
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Bearing the Unbearable, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore
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The Modern Loss Handbook: An Interactive Guide to Moving Through Grief and Building Resilience, Rebecca Soffer
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What's Your Grief?: Lists to Help You Through Any Loss, Haley and Williams
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The Wild Edge of Sorrow, Francis Weller
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A Grief Observed, C. S. Lewis
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A Year of Magical Thinking, Joan Didion
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What to Do When I am Gone: A Mother’s Wisdom to Her Daughter, Suzy Hopkins.
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Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking: A Compassionate, Widely-Available Option for Hastening Death by Timothy E. Quill (Editor), Paul T. Menzel (Editor), Thaddeus Pope
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The VSED Handbook, Kate Christie
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The Day I Die: The Untold Story of Assisted Dying in America, by Anita Hannig
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In Love: A Memoir of Love and Loss, Amy Bloom
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Being Mortal, Atul Gawande
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The Three Regrets, Tenzin Kiyosaki
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When Breath Becomes Air, Paul Kalinithi
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Die Wise, Stephen Jenkinson
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Holding Space on Loving, Dying, and Letting Go, by Amy Wright Glenn
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Re-Imagining the End of Life: Self-Development & Reflective Practices for Nurse Coaches, Jan Booth
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The Five Invitations, Frank Ostaseski
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The Grace in Dying, Kathleen Dowling-Singh
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A Year to Live, Stephen and Ondrea Levine
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Who Dies? Stephen and Ondrea Levine
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Dying Well, Ira Byock
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How to Enjoy Death: Preparing to Meet Life’s Final Challenge without Fear, Lama Zopa Rinpoche
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Walking Each Other Home, Ram Dass
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The Conversation, Volandes, MD
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At Home With Dying, Collett
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Extreme Measures, Jessica Zitter, MD
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The Lost Art of Dying, L.S. Dugdale
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Tuesdays With Morrie, Mitch Albom
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Marrow, Elizabeth Lesser
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Graceful Exit, Ferber, MD
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The Tibetan Book of the Dead
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Dancing with Elephants, Jarem Sawatsky
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From Here to Eternity, Caitlin Doughty
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The Good Funeral, Long and Lynch
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Making Friends with Death: A Buddhist Guide to Encountering Mortality, by Judith L. Lief
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No Death, No Fear: Comforting Wisdom for Life, by Thich Nhat Hanh (Riverhead)
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Living in the Light of Death: On the Art of Being Truly Alive, by Larry Rosenberg
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Leaning Into Sharp Points: Practical Guidance and Nurturing Support for Caregivers, by Stan Goldberg
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Staring at the sun: Overcoming the terror of death, by Irving Yalom
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Being with Dying: Cultivating compassion and fearlessness in the presence of death, by Joan Halifax
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The End of Fear: A spiritual path for realists, by Richard Schaub
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Overcoming the Fear of Death: Through each of the 4 main belief systems, by Kelvin Chin
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Share the Care, by Capossela and Warnock
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At the Time of Death: Symbols & Rituals for Caregivers and Chaplains, by David Bieniek
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You’ve Reached Sam, by Dustin Thao - a Young Adult Novel
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Dear Death, by Diane Button
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With the End in Mind, by Kathryn Mannix
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Grief is for People, by Sloane Crosley
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Power in the Helping Professions by Gugglebruhl-Craig
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Companioning the Bereaved by Dr. Wolfet
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Annie Freeman’s Fabulous Traveling Funeral by Kris Radish (fiction)
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When Breath Becomes Air - by Paul Kalinithi (Memoire)
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Present Through the End - by Kirsten DeLeo (Caring Companion’s Guide
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The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying - by Sogyal Rinpoche (updated edition)
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Intimate Death: How the Dying Teaches how to Live - by Marie DeHennevel
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Our Greatest Gifts: A Meditation on Dying and Caring - by Henri Nouwen
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The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker
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Here After by Amy Lin
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The Fault of Our Stars by John Green (Fiction)
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The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch
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The End of Your Life Book Club - By Will Schwalbe
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The Year of Magical Thinking by Jill Didion
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Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs by Caitlin Doughty
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The Five People you Meet in Heaven - by Mitch Albom
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Final Gifts by Maggie Callanan
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Can’t We Talk About Something More Pleasant by Roz Chast
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The Bright Hour: A Memoir of Living and Dying - by Nina Riggs (Memoir)
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Everything Happens for a Reason: And Other Lies I’ve Loved by Kate Bowler
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The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker
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It’s OK that You’re Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture that Doesn’t Understand by Megan Devine
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Deathing: An Intelligent Alternative for the Final Moments of Life by Anya Foos-Graber
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In the Slender Margin: The Intimate Strangeness of Death and Dying by Eve Joseph
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Gone from my Sight by Barbara Karnes
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On Death and Dying by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
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On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and David Kessler
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Living in the Face of Death: The Tibetan Tradition by Glenn Mullin
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The Good Death: An Exploration of Dying in America by Ann Neuman
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How We Die: Reflections On LIfe’s Final Chapter by Sherwin B. Nuland
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Advice for Future Corpses and Those Who Love Them: A Practical Perspective on
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Death and Dying by Sallie Tisdale
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Death: An Inside Story: A Book for All Those Who Shall Die by Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev
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In my Time of Dying: How I Came Face-to-Face with the Idea of an Afterlife by Sebastian Junger (a memoir)
Books for Children
(Caregivers are encouraged to read these books first, they may not all be appropriate for every age or situation.)
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When Someone Dies, Sharon Greenlee
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What Color is Death, Daddy?, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore
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How Do You Care for A Very Sick Bear, Vanessa Bayer
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The Goodbye Book, Todd Parr
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Duck, Death and the Tulip, Wolf Erlbruch
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Always Remember, Cece Meng
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The Dragonfly Story: Explaining the death of a loved one to children and families, Kelly Owen
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Badger’s Parting Gifts, Suan Varley
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Bear and Bird, James Skofield and Jennifer Thermes
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The Memory Tree, Britta Teckentrup
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Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children, Brian Mellonie and Robert Ingpen
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Maybe Dying is Like Becoming a Butterfly, Pimm van Hest
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Nana Upstairs and Nana Downstairs, Tomie dePaola
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Death is Stupid, Anastasia Higginbotham
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The Invisible String, Patrice Karst
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Tear Soup, Pat Schwiebert
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Little Tree, Loren Long
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The Flat Rabbit, Bardur Oskarsson
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Cry Heart, But Never Break: Glenn Ringtved, Charlotte Pardi
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When Miss Bluebird Died, Jennifer Reich, Kristine Kollasch
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When Dinosaurs Die, Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown
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**I Miss You: A first look at death, Thomas and Harker
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Wherever You Are, my love will find you, Nancy Tillman
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Sad Isn’t Bad, Mundy
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A Stone for Sascha, Aaron Becker
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Tess’s Tree, Jess M. Brallier
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A Terrible Thing Happened, Holmes and Mudlaff
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When I Feel Sad, Cornelia Maude Spelman
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Where Do They Go? Julia Alvarez
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The Funeral, Matt James
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The Purple Balloon, Raschka
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The Heart and the Bottle, Oliver Jeffers
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Lasting Love, Wright and Heath
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When Sadness is at Your Door, Eva Eland
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Charlotte’s Web, E.B. White
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The Memory Box: A book about grief, Joanna Rowland
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Boats for Papa, Jessica Bagley
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Map of Memory Lane, Arnoldy
Movies
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The Fault in Our Stars - a love story between two young cancer patients
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Paddleton - Two friends deal with Medical Aid in Dying
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Tuesdays With Morrie
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Lullabye
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The Life of Death (animated on YouTube)
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Departures
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The Farewell
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A Monster Calls
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A Good Death
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Two Weeks (Starring Sally Fields)
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My Girl
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Terms of Endearment
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After Life
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Soul (Disney)
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Coco
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Ms. White Light Amazon Prime
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Death Makes Life Possible
Documentaries -
Zen and the Art of Dying - profiles Zenith Virago
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Griefwalker - profiles Stephen Jenkinson
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An Honest Death
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Dying Wish (VSED)
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Rosemary Bowen (VSED)
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End Game
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Extremis
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Go in Peace
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Surviving Death (Netflix)
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Pioneers of Hospice
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Holding Our Own: Embracing the End of Life by Camilla Rockwell: a moving and tender treatment of life’s final passage, gently guides viewers into this oft-avoided topic. "Holding Our Own" features the stunning work of Vermont artist Deidre Scherer and the heartfelt harmonies of the Hallowell hospice chorus to examine aging and the end of life with a wise and celebratory approach.
Podcasts
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End of Life University: Created by Dr. Karen Wyatt, a website, podcast, and resource for anything and all Death Education.
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Death: the Podcast
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Dead Funny, Dead Serious with Mitzi Weiland
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Death by Design Kimberly Paul
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Death, et seq. Tanya Marsh
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Doing Death: Amanda Blainey
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Death in the Afternoon: Caitlin Doughty
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A Mortician Talks Openly About Death, And Wants You To, Too (Fresh Air Interview)